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Lately 10.23
 
 

october Family reads:

Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain
Through Gates of Splendor by Elisabeth Elliot


In the Northern Hemisphere, deciduous trees, shrubs, and vines shed their not-so-evergreen leaves to a spectrum of flaming reds, fiery oranges, and striking yellows as the transition out of summer is orchestrated by the stunning autumn equinox. The tradition of foraging the canyons for fall foliage, pine cones, and holly berries with my daughters will be a lovely memory living in California! In the tropics, we don’t feel a dramatic seasonal shift. Yet, I still welcome all the autumn/winter crafts and warmer hues to spruce up our home. Suppose I can find an off-the-beaten-path around our town dotted with pines and rainbow eucalyptus trees; I’ll be able to gather eucalyptus branches to fill my vessels with the invigorating scent that will indeed stimulate our senses indoors and continue our foraging traditions!


 

09/29 — Playful Pioneers II, September gathering. Northshore, O’ahu.

 
 

Our home becomes an atelier of handmade clothing and goods within the months preceding December. In the last week of September, I dusted off my sewing machine after a year-long hiatus after moving overseas to make Indian costumes for our first Playful Pioneers II gathering with our homeschool co-op at my friend Corinne’s charming home. Costumes are often sewn with fabric scraps and anything we can pull out of our closets or thrift from second-hand shops to hack at. Unless we need specific materials, I’ll run to the store—which I did for a couple yards of brown faux suede this time. It always takes just one sitting at the machine to bring me back to the art of slow design. At the pioneer party, the girls and their new friend, Hana, were dressed as Indians, while the rest of the children dressed as darling colonial girls. They all took turns around the table to share something they’d been learning and feasted on a delicious spread of recipes each family made from the Playful Pioneer cookbook. At the end of it all, they decoupaged pumpkins with fall-themed napkins and pressed flowers. 

This really deserves its own blog post!

 
 
 

It’s hard to believe that we are coming up on one year—November 4th— of living in Hawai’i! Our potager (kitchen garden) is filling out with perennial herbs that were started from tiny seedlings— sage, lavender, rosemary, oregano, mint, lemon balm, basil, and thyme— keeping the bed full of life as the summer annuals push through. The garlic chives are flowering pops of white scapes, the plumeria tree is in late bloom, white strawberry blossoms have appeared, and the kale and rainbow chard might be good for picking soon. All the late summer/fall vegetable seeds germinated quickly; the next task is amending the soil where they will be transplanted. 

This fall, I’ve extended the flower garden to the side of our house, which receives even less sunlight than our garden beds. Ema’s colorful Impatiens have grown three times bigger after a few weeks planted in the ground. Again, we are combating gastropods, which arrived with the rain last week. Spencer goes out in the evening with a flashlight to kill off the population while Leia and I follow behind, sprinkling crushed eggshells around each plant. A white wintery wonderland of Diatomaceous Earth also covers the garden beds from insects, having a feast at my dahlias and kale. I plan to coil more copper rods— an ancient agricultural technique called “electroculture,” I learned from my friend Naomi!

 

09/15 — Nature study with our Charlotte Mason nature group at the Wahiawã Botanical Garden.

 
 
 
 
 

On the third week of October, we were on a break with our Classical Conversations co-op, which gave us time to catch our breath, especially with my Challenge student. On our CC day, we went on a late morning 2.5-mile hike along the Waimano Ridge trail. My hopes were high that we would end with a cool dip in the stream after taking the upper route through the caves in 97-degree weather— thankfully, the trail is mostly shaded. We were shocked to see the stream completely dry! So we sat on the rocks, ate snacks, and rested before we trekked back to our car. I’m glad to say we’ve hiked many trails on this island over this past year, some with our homeschool community and some with our family! 

I will elaborate more on what we have been studying in CC and with our Playful Pioneers II curriculum in the following posts! We’ve been reading about East Coast states individually—each of us creating a two-page spread of a state we’ve chosen. It was a spontaneous idea that began with a large stack of unused scrapbook paper in my mom’s closet. By the end of the year, we will bind it together with string to make our United States road map family notebook! We are slowly reading through “Adventures of Tom Sawyer” by Mark Twain alongside this significant effort. This classic tale’s language can be vulgar, so sometimes I skip the dialogue or paraphrase what is happening. I replaced a couple of the books on the Playful Pioneers reading list only because the recommended books were not at our local library—probably because other homeschoolers on the North Shore are borrowing the same books! Eventually, we will read “The Cabin Faced West” and “Why Don’t You Get a Horse, Sam Adams?” by Jean Fritz, or I may pick up “Adventures of Huckleberry Finn” and go on a binge-read of Twain’s classics. Evie is reading “Through Gates of Splendor” by Elisabeth Elliot and dedicating many hours to work on her debate strands for CC. More on that later! 

Have a beautiful harvest season!

x jena 

 

Spring Garden Notes
 
If you wish to make anything grow, you must understand it, and understand it in a very real sense. ‘Green fingers’ are a fact, and a mystery only to the unpracticed. But green fingers are the extensions of a verdant heart.
— Russell Page, The Education of a Gardener
 

I've been dreaming of growing our Spring garden since we moved to our new home in November for several reasons— as a creature of habit, I feel lost and idle without a garden to tend to, and the girls seem uninterested in spending time in a backyard with just a lawn of grass. In every home we’ve moved into its been my top priority to add our personal touch and color to the landscape; and if there isn’t a garden, we grow one. These past few months have been somewhat of a slow process.

Ultimately, the garden is the heart of our homeschool life. No matter how big or small, it provides us many moments of education in leisure and in class hours. In the primer years, I invest a lot of time teaching the girls how to grow their own herbs, flowers, and vegetables from seed, They also learn how to take notes of their observations and illustrate our kitchen garden's slow changes throughout the seasons.

x jena

 
 

photos & garden notes


01/05 Sandie, Leia, and Ema helped to sow the first seeds of the new year to jumpstart our spring garden. Ideally we would be using terracotta pots, but instead, we are using reusable seed trays and plastic pots from my parent’s house.

01/16 This unused space was truly an answered prayer. It replaced the 4 cedar garden beds my husband built in California with Evie, which we sold to someone before we left.

02/12 Once I pulled out the weeds and amended the soil in February, I transplanted the seedlings into the beds. I bought marigolds, lavender, mint, sage, basil and rosemary seedlings from the store to fill the beds in; and also transplanted chives my mom was growing at her house. We had experienced significant rain, but thankfully the bed had excellent drainage. However, all seedlings showed signs of poor growth with little to no sunlight during those months.

03/05 Snails and slugs have already caused a lot of destruction in the beds over the last month— the marigolds, zinnias, and rows of collards and kale (on both sides of the row of arugula) have been devoured.

03/13 Sandie measures the growth of our plants and records it in her nature journal.

03/05 Approximately two dozen Giant Cactus Zinnias were planted in this tray, but 1/4 of the seedlings vanished overnight.

3/05 Chamomile sprouting
4/24 Once I transplanted it along the border of the garden bed, gastropods had a feast.

3/20 Lupine
4/24 Majority of the lupine got eaten after being transplanted into the garden bed.

3/20 Rows of seedings (lacinto kale, collard greens, marigolds, and ruby red chard planted alongside the arugula) keep getting devoured after every succession planting.

3/29 Planted a row of chives in the back to deter pests, and thyme in front for texture and ground cover. This area should be full of a dozen zinnia plants, but more than half has been eaten up.

3/29 Kale sprouting between a row of arugula and chives.
4/24 No luck in kale seedlings when direct sown into beds. Every succession has been devoured by pests. However, the arugula still stands and the chives are growing wonderfully!

3/29 Morning routine.

4/03 April showers and the view from my work desk.

4/3 Trellis for Dwarf Sugar Peas

4/6 Leia playing in the Resurrection Garden.

4/10 Dill is always better freshly picked!

4/10 Ema’s Easter Resurrection Garden, turned into a little home for her figurines.

4/10 Beet seedlings covered with a repurposed plastic egg tray to protect it from snails. Crushed egg shells also line the front of the bed.

4/22 Dwarf Sugar Snap Peas flowering

4/24 Cilantro flowering near basil and dill

4/24 Morning duties before the rain clouds rolled in on a perfect gardening day.

 
A Moral Garden
 

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The principal value of a private garden is not understood. It is not to give the possessor vegetables or fruit (that can be better and cheaper done by the market-gardeners), but to teach him patience and philosophy and the higher virtues, hope deferred and expectations blighted, leading directly to resignation and sometimes to alienation. The garden thus becomes a moral agent, a test of character, as it was in the beginning. I shall keep this central truth in mind in these articles. I mean to have a moral garden, if it is not a productive one,—one that shall teach, O my brothers! O my sisters! the great lessons of life.
— Charles Dudley Warner. "Summer in a garden, and calvin, a study of character: First Week", 1870.
 
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After many years of gardening through the seasons in southern California, I can attest to one thing: you reap what you sow in gardening and motherhood. The labor of a gardener is not so simple, and neither are the duties of a mother. Interestingly, the more knowledge I’ve gained through growing our food, the more I’ve witnessed the parallels in raising children. The garden secretly holds such valuable wisdom through the labor of our hands. From seed to harvest, one of many moral virtues it teaches us is patience—  how to wait with gratitude and to intentionally slow down as we wait for the fruit to ripen. It also teaches us that neglect in the garden can result in a poor harvest.

The more attentive I am to how our plants grow— Does the soil need more nitrogen? Is this specific plant getting too much sunlight or too much water? Do I need to move this plant to a bigger pot?— the healthier our garden grows. I remember one year during the heat of Summer, one of our zucchini plants succumbed to powdery mildew— also known as blight—on its leaves. After a few weeks of avoiding the problem, I looked from the bedroom window and saw the disease spread from one plant to the other, including our beautiful cosmos and morning glory vine along our fence. Not only did I become even more discouraged, but I also gave up on our garden throughout the summer. Neglect led to more damage than I anticipated and more work in the long run; it was a moral lesson to me that the same goes for what happens within the walls of our homes, minds, bodies, and hearts.

Do not despise these small beginnings,for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.
— Zechariah 4:10

These pictures show our flourishing 2020 spring garden in our Clairemont home in San Diego. I had learned my lesson as a gardener. We had a bountiful harvest that year and a healthy homeschool that reaped the benefits of having a daily routine and aiming for small victories through small beginnings. Whether it was reading a chapter a day or fixing a bad habit, I believe we overcame so much just by caring enough for what we love.

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ONIONS
ZUCCHINI
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KALE
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CILANTRO — flowering dainty white blossoms.
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SPRING/SUMMER 2020 NOTES

MARCHspring seeds

Vegetables: Chinese Cabbage, Radishes, Beets, Zucchini, Cherry Tomatoes, Spinach, Swiss Chard, Carrots, Green Onions, Sugar Peas, and Peas.

Herbs: Chives, Cilantro, Basil, Dill

Flowers: French Marigolds, Benjamin Buttons, Zinnias, Assylum, Cosmos, and Hollyhock.

Results: The only seeds that did not germinate were the Chives.

JULYsummer seeds

Vegetables: Cucumbers, Okra, Pumpkin, Rainbow Chard, a variety of tomatoes, and more Zucchini.

Flowers: Sunflower, Morning Glory

Results: The summer heat killed the Zinnias and Benjamin Buttons, so we decided to grow more Zinnias and plant them in a partial sunny area. We also planted a dozen Sunflower seeds, but only 4 plants survived. A pest (squirrel or rat) would munch the head of the seedlings once they grew to about 3”.

AUGUSTlate summer

I took a break from tending to the garden because I needed to prepare for our school year, which began on August 17th. Ripe vegetables would be harvested, plants were watered daily or every other day because I just didn't have the time, my husband managed our compost; and once a week, I would prune the plants, the girls would dead-head the flowers, and we'd spend a minimal amount of time pulling weeds. Caterpillars are getting the most of our greens, but at least it's a sign that our potager is thriving with life!

SEPTEMBERalmost fall

The days have been too hot to start planting anything right now, so we continue to water and harvest what remains.

x jena

 
Lately 7.22
 

The deeper our troubles the louder our thanks to God.
— Charles Spurgeon

Our summertime began on the first of July, following our official last day of school when our daily rhythm also ceased. We didn’t throw a pizza party, no certificates, no last day of school portraits, just one final assignment then closed the books to a sigh of relief. This year has been especially difficult for us to navigate as a family due to grieving circumstances; but respite from anxieties and healing from loss, I testify, can be gently walked through while growing a garden.

The days of this month seem to march along after a Fourth of tide pools during sunset, homemade vanilla cake, and watching fireworks illuminate the night sky across the bay as we celebrated America’s Independence from the hillsides of La Jolla. Commitments are being penciled into our fall calendar as I excitedly prepare our feast for the following year— sifting through curriculum that breathes familiarity and inspiration. A parent orientation scheduled next Thursday will likely sneak up on me, along with a road trip we’ve been hoping to take to celebrate our tenth anniversary; and while the days seem to fly, I have much intention to sow personal habits into my weekly repertoire before July escapes!

Less is more, even when choosing what we are dedicating our energy and time to. The girls have been keeping a weekly journal of their observations in the garden, finding their independence in the kitchen and leisure in outdoor activities. They’ve taken quite an obsession for Legos—both building and drawing. The older ones have resumed guitar and ukulele lessons with a family friend, and the younger ones -my wildflowers- are just being their vibrant and lively selves all around the clock with their infections laughter and silliness. My husband installed an arched trellis out of cattle fence and t-bars for the cucumbers, watermelon, and squash to climb, and together we tilled another garden bed in the ground to grow more vegetables and cut flowers. As for me, I’ve made it a goal to pursue this blog as my part-time creative gig and so far it’s bringing me a lot of joy and inspiration to even write this.

 
As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds are dead
— james (hebrews 2:26)

 
 

Leaning into this season looks a lot like carving more time with my family, displaying faith in action and serving one another in tangible ways that show evidence of love. It’s a hard season, but I’ve been assured… we’ll get through.

x jena

 
Bienvenue!
 

 
 
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...in reclaiming childhood, we are reclaiming motherhood as well—trusting our instincts and doing what’s best for our children, rather than what society says is normal or expected.
— Ainsley Arment, The Call of the Wild + Free

 
 

Bienvenue! Welcome!

It’s been a desire of mine to launch a blog since I began homeschooling my oldest daughter as she was starting in Kindergarden. Evie is now more than halfway through 5th grade. It was around that time when a friend of mine told me of an Instagram profile she came across called Wild + Free (@wildandfree.co) and she was sure I’d be interested in them! After one glance, I immediately hit follow. I dreamed that a life like this was possible- and these mamas were living proof. Since then, the world of homeschooling has grown more captivating than ever. Behind the breathtaking images lies a community reclaiming the wonder of childhood, motherhood, fatherhood and the role of a home educator— a job not for the faint of heart.

My mother-in-law, Sherry, homeschooled her own children when it wasn’t such a popular thing to do. Her stories of driving cross-country with her young family, and educating her children about the history of America, gave me a vision to school outside of the classroom. These stories planted the seed. When I became pregnant with Evie, I felt a calling to homeschool her, despite feeling completely inadequate. And yet, here we are, 10 years later, with no regrets… only reasons to keep moving forward!

If you follow us on Instagram @providenceacademie, you may have already seen a glimpse into our life. My four darlings have made me a full-time mother— and homeschooling is my job. This year I have a 5th grader, two preschoolers (5 and 3), and a 7 month old! With multiples, we take it one day at a time… conquering one distraction at a time, one bad habit at a time. We’re taming tongues and taming tempers (mine included). In the midst of all the books and lessons, our desire is to foster curious minds, build their character, and raise our girls to be great women of faith!

 
 

The question is not, — how much does the youth know? when he has finished his education — but how much does he care? and about how many orders of things does he care? In fact, how large is the room in which he finds his feet set? and, therefore, how full is the life he has before him?
— Charlotte Mason, Home Education
 

 

At last, a growing movement of parents choosing the road less-traveled and carving their own homeschooling path! Maybe a telling sign of parents reevaluating the educational system? Many of these parents include credentialed teachers who have chosen to step away from their careers to homeschool their own children— my 5yo daughter’s tutor being one of them. Astonishingly, as of mid-March, the entire country (along with many others) was forced into homeschooling, resulting in a universal appreciation from working parents toward teachers and home-educators. One of the most frequently asked question I’ve heard over the past month is, “How do you do it?” I hope to chip away at this question in future posts and unravel common misconceptions about homeschooling. I’ll be sharing challenges we face, rewards we reap, and how we make it all work in our lovely little schoolroom of girls!

Without further ado, welcome to The Report!

x Jena